I know a lot of families that do trips with their kids — big trips, little trips, every trip’s a trip.
We are not that kind of family, because I am not that kind of mama. Traveling with the kids feels like purgatory and I avoid it at (almost) all costs. (My poor kids.)
At least, until yesterday! I’m still amazed at how well it went. I know for 1000% sure it was all those pilgrimage graces. 🙂 And also some mental preparation: all week I told the boys about our “pilgrimage” we’d be going on on Saturday. I explained what a pilgrimage is (focusing on how a lot of times the nature of a pilgrimage is to be somewhat difficult), and we talked a looootttt about St. Anne. I think I must have reminded my 3yo five times yesterday morning alone that St. Anne is “Mother Mary’s mama” and “Jesus’ Nannie” (their name for my mom) and I thought his head was going to explode every time. His jaw just kept dropping. It was the cutest.
It was a long day, because we broke up the 2+ hour drive with a stopover for lunch (takeout McD’s, the boys were in heaaa-ven. They were like, let’s do pilgrimages more often! Haha!), and were determined not to leave the Shrine for home until bedtime (so they’d fall asleep in the car). I packed a picnic dinner (grilled cheese, doritos, applesauce, brownies, gatorade), which we ate at a picnic table on the beautiful grounds while (yes, while) the boys ran around, rolled in the grass, dueled with huge sticks, etc. We used their public bathroom a whole bunch of times.
I did try to find that Mother’s Garden … I never did find anything so marked, but there was this sweet little spot with a small bench and a bubbling fountain and this lovely statue:
so I’m thinking maybe that was it?
I discovered that the Edmundites administer the Shrine — I’d never heard of them! Looking them up just now, what an absolutely perfect mission they have:
“Who we are is defined in large part by our long history of responding to real and challenging issues of the day … The Society of Saint Edmund began in the 1840s in a rural region of France to revitalize the faith of people who had become increasingly alienated from the Catholic Church.“
One story was just beautiful:
“Early in 1965, Edmundite Fr. Maurice Ouellet, pastor of St. Elizabeth’s African-American mission in Selma, answered a knock at his door. He was surprised to see [Martin Luther] King [Jr.] standing on the front step.
“The Negro people tell me there is one white man in Selma who is black,” King said by way of introduction, “and I want to meet him.””
(Be still my heart!)
This is their outdoor church, where we attended the Vigil Mass:
Do you see the actual church building on the left? And how the whole front is one big gray door? I think it’s like a roll-down door, like a garage, because during Mass it was up, and it was just big enough for an altar and chairs for the priests and lectern and altar servers, so the pavilion housed the pews. I would have loved to have gotten a picture of the altar and beautiful statue of St. Anne inside, but while the Mass-goers were dispersing I headed over to a small A-frame to see what was there, and it was the thing I’d been hoping to find:
I lit a candle for all the intentions I promised to bring — it’s the one in the back row of candles in the bottom of the picture, the fifth from the left, between the super bright one and the 3/4 dark one. There were pads of paper where we could write down our intentions, so I did — you’re all covered!! 🙂
When I finished there, I went back to the church/pavilion in hopes of getting a picture of the altar and the St. Anne statue, but it was all closed up. This one was on the ground next to it though:
It makes me think of “Lovely Lady dressed in blue, teach me how to pray,” except it wouldn’t be blue for St. Anne — pink? At least, I always think of pink as her color.
After Mass we changed diapers and used the bathrooms again (!) and headed home, but not before I got this sweet pic of my youngest (and his little toes!) watching his brothers play (while I fed him a brownie):
I’m still flying high with the loveliness of the day, it was truly a #MissionofJoy, and the perfect way to celebrate the blogiversary. 🙂 ❤
St. Anne, pray for us!
UPDATED: I made the pics bigger.
Sounds like a wonderful little adventure 🙂 I’m happy it was a success and thank you for praying for all of us!
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This is beautiful, Kate! I also strongly dislike traveling with my kids, but this sounds like a perfect day trip!
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Sounds like a truly grace-filled journey…you have been especially blessed …especially…
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“We are not that kind of family, because I am not that kind of mama. Traveling with the kids feels like purgatory and I avoid it at (almost) all costs. (My poor kids.)”
This is totally ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have friends that travel with a pack of kids ALL THE TIME, sometimes even sans husband and it makes me break into a cold sweat just thinking about doing it with our 4 + minions.
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I went to Mass this morning and found that my parish had just installed a beautiful new statue of St. Anne! (Plus St. Joseph, JPII, and Mother Theresa).
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Sounds like a lovely day….is this the St. Anne’s Shrine in Isle La Motte? It looks very familiar….
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Yup!
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Beautiful. My mom went there when I was young- that’s why I remember it, the pictures. Maybe one day I’ll get the courage to take a little ride up the road with our kiddos to visit…
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How far are you from it Kate?
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Only about an hour, actually. It’d be fun to go with my mom, since she went years ago….
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Oh yes, you should! It was lovely! There’s a sandy beach and dock right at the shrine for swimming — I purposely didn’t bring suits and towels because the weather wasn’t supposed to be great (and wasn’t — chilly-ish and rainy) and we weren’t spending enough time to do that and everything else, but I otherwise we all would have been really excited about that. And it was a really beautiful ride!
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Are you in VT? (You don’t have to tell me if you want to keep it private!)
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Yes, are you?
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No, NY!
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So close, yet so far! 😉
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Thanks for sharing!
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Oooh, I was up your direction this past weekend! I was busy traveling so missed all the cool blog updates… sounds like a perfect pilgrimage!
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Aww nice! It was lovely!
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